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What is \u201cCatfishing\u201d when talking about online dating?<\/strong><\/h1>\n

Catfishing<\/strong> is a term that describes a recently popular \u201couted\u201d dating scam and is a term coined by \u201cNev\u201d<\/a> Yaniv Shulman and his film crew from the movie Catfish<\/a>. Catfishing online is nothing new and has been going on for years<\/a> since the first dating site Love@AOL and many others were introduced around 1995. Catfishing is not a surprise since data suggest that 1 in 10 dating profiles are fake<\/a> on these dating sites. A Catfish scam occurs when someone assumes a persona (or many) in order to trick another person into believing that they\u2019re really that person online. Oftentimes a \u201cCatfish\u201d will go to extremes to continue their lie and typically use social networks, dating sites and all different types online forums. They might display fake profile pictures, get a separate phone line and even create a complete online profile with \u201cfake\u201d friends to cover their tracks. Oftentimes, there is a reason why people choose to create these fake profiles<\/a>. Below you can see why someone might choose to create a fake catfish profile<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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Why are Online Dating Scammers Called Catfish?<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

What is a Catfish?<\/strong> A \u201ccatfish\u201d is a term derived from an old fish story told<\/a> to Nev Shulman about stimulating cod to increase the taste and texture. The story explains how fisherman used to have the problem of cod becoming<\/a> bored and understimulated while being \u201ctanked\u201d during the boat-ride from Alaska to China which would cause them to become stale and tasteless. Someone came up with an idea to put catfish<\/a> in the tanks with the cod. Being a natural predator (we haven\u2019t been able to verify this as we couldn\u2019t find any data supporting the claim and the fact that catfish<\/a> are fresh water fish), the catfish would chase the cod and keep them moving and agile which, in return would produce a better quality cod. Well, Vince (the husband of the woman; Angela who \u201ccatfished\u201d Nev) compared this story to her efforts in contrast to their online relationship<\/a> where she lured him in and \u201cstimulated\u201d him. This is a nice way to put it since most of these online relationships are purely selfish and the catfish<\/a> usually has a motive for what they\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n

What are the Signs of an Online Dating Scammer?<\/h2>\n

Online dating scammers are individuals who use false identities on adult dating sites, social media platforms, or other online forums to establish fraudulent relationships with unsuspecting victims. Here are some signs that may indicate that someone you’re talking to online could be a scammer:<\/p>\n

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  1. They ask for money or financial information<\/strong>: Scammers<\/a> may ask for money for various reasons, such as medical emergencies, travel expenses, or unexpected financial difficulties. They may also ask for your credit card or bank account<\/a> information.<\/li>\n
  2. They have a fake profile<\/strong>: Scammers<\/a> often use fake profile photos, names, and details to create a persona that is appealing to their victims.<\/li>\n
  3. They move too quickly<\/strong>: Scammers may try<\/a> to establish a relationship very quickly, often claiming to have strong feelings for you after just a few conversations.<\/li>\n
  4. They avoid video chats<\/a> or in-person meetings<\/strong>: Scammers may be hesitant to meet in person or to have video chats, often claiming to be in a different country or to have limited internet access.<\/li>\n
  5. They have inconsistencies in their stories<\/strong>: Scammers may provide inconsistent or contradictory information about their personal<\/a> details, job, or background.<\/li>\n
  6. They use poor grammar or spelling<\/strong>: Scammers may not be fluent in the language they are using to communicate with you, leading to frequent grammar and spelling mistakes.<\/li>\n
  7. They refuse to answer questions<\/strong>: Scammers may avoid<\/a> answering direct questions or may deflect with vague or evasive answers.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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    Find Out if You\u2019re Being Catfished<\/h1>\n<\/div>\n
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    Types of Catfish?<\/h1>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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    Dating Catfish<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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    Dating catfish refers to individuals who create false identities on social networks, forums, and dating sites like Facebook, Plenty of Fish (POF.com), and OkCupid. These scammers engage in conversations with unsuspecting individuals, often fabricating elaborate life stories to maintain their facade. Although the term has gained more publicity recently, the practice of catfishing has been around much longer than many realize.<\/p>\n

    Motivations Behind Catfishing<\/strong><\/p>\n

    The reasons for catfishing vary widely but typically include a deep-seated need for acceptance, a lack of self-confidence, or financial motives. In every instance, the catfish is deceitful about their true identity, using their fabricated persona to manipulate others emotionally or financially.<\/p>\n

    Common Tactics Used by Catfish in the Dating Scene<\/strong><\/p>\n

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    1. Creation of Fake Profiles:<\/strong> Catfish often set up entirely fake profiles with stolen images and fictional backstories.<\/li>\n
    2. Elaborate Stories and Excuses:<\/strong> They weave complex tales to explain life circumstances that may garner sympathy or delay face-to-face meetings.<\/li>\n
    3. Emotional Manipulation:<\/strong> Their interactions are designed to evoke strong emotional responses that keep victims engaged and invested in the relationship.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Protecting Yourself from Dating Catfish<\/strong><\/p>\n

      To safeguard against catfish in the dating world, be vigilant in verifying the authenticity of those you meet online. Utilize reverse image searches to check profile photos, be wary of overly dramatic life stories, and insist on video calls early in the interaction. Recognizing these signs early can help prevent emotional and financial exploitation.<\/p>\n

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      419 Nigerian Prince Scam<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
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      This is one of the oldest and most known catfishing profiles<\/a> that originally started with mail then, fax and then email. The story has evolved over time from needing money to get the prince out of jail and then personal information<\/a> in order to wire money but, the most recent story is the African prince needs money for bribes so that they can get access to the money and in return, they (the scam artist) claim that they will provide a large payoff. Another version of this story is that the prince needs to store the money<\/a> temporarily in order to hide the money. They ask for personal bank information in order to transfer the money and then steal<\/a> money. The latest version of this scam are people posing as your relatives on Facebook telling you that they know a wealthy person that needs money because to move because they don\u2019t currently have access<\/a> to their money. These are the worst types of the catfish scams and always involved a request for personal information<\/a> or to send money.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n

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      Russian brides scam (Romance scam)<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
      This is one of the easiest scams<\/a> to catch but, so many people fall for it each year because it plays into their emotions. A typical Russian bride scam plays out where you are contacted by a women<\/a> (it can be a man too) who is looking for an American mate to marry and settle down with. After a specified time, they start asking for money<\/a> for things like internet (because it\u2019s supposedly expensive in their country) plane tickets, travels expenses, etc. Another example is where the scammer<\/a> will contact you, start developing feelings really quickly and then disappear. Once they reappear, they tell you that they\u2019ve been in a horrible accident and that they need money<\/a> for medical expenses, etc. These types of scams<\/a> always involve asking for money to help them pay for things that can be narrowed down to medical expenses, travel costs or basic necessitates. Keep in mind that they don\u2019t always come from Russia.<\/div>\n<\/article>\n
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      What is the psychology behind Catfish schemes?<\/h1>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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      \"lonliness\"<\/a><\/div>\n

      Loneliness<\/h2>\n
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      Online relationships reduce their loneliness so they continue to build upon fake profiles<\/a> and meet new people becoming more involved (often romantically). This makes the relationship harder to keep as there is often a need to talk and see each other.<\/p>\n

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      Sensation Seekers<\/h2>\n

      People will take legal, emotion risks to seek intense sensations. This involves creating fake<\/a> personas and even more elaborate situations to continue these facades. Often there is no intention to hurt people, just to feel a certain emotion.<\/p>\n

      \"extroverted\"<\/a><\/div>\n

      Extroverted<\/h2>\n

      Believe it or not, but, most catfish<\/a> are extroverts. They love communicating with other people and love the attention which drives them to become a catfish<\/a>.<\/p>\n

      \"revenge\"<\/a><\/div>\n

      Revenge<\/h2>\n

      Sometimes people catfish<\/a> for revenge. A boyfriends\u2019 ex or someone that screwed them over. You get the point.<\/p>\n

      \"nigerian<\/a><\/div>\n

      Greed<\/h2>\n

      These are the worst types of catfish<\/a>. Their only concern is getting your money and they will tell you whatever it takes to get it.<\/p>\n

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      How do you know if you\u2019re being Catfished?<\/h1>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

      Additional Catfish Resources:<\/h3>\n